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Maybe it's just me, somebody tell me if it is, but is sex really that important?
Yes, sex is an important part of a relationship, but it's not the only part. The vibe that I'm getting from Swamp Thing and Dexter, (not putting words in your mouths), is that sex is a deal breaker. I just can't understand that. I know it feels good, but to me it's not that important.
If I found a man that I really like and really want to be with and he said that he wanted to wait, I would have no problem with that. And, it's not just because I am celibate right now. If I see a future with you and I feel like you might be the one, then to throw that all away over sex seems petty to me. If I want to be with you, that means I am looking to develop a meaningful relationship with you. I want to share in your joys, and help you through your hardships. I want to know you on every level. And that includes on a sexual level. But, sex takes a backseat to me.
I have to ask the men who say that they wouldn't want to wait a question. What would you do if you could only have a relationship with one of two women. The first has absolutely everything that you want, need, and desire in a woman, but she is not willing or ready to have sex with you. The second has absolutely no redeeming qualities but she will give you all of the baby-less, disease-less sex that you want. Neiher of these women will ever change. You have to spend the rest of your life with whomever you choose. Which one is it going to be?
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