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Originally Posted by DubaiSis
The original post was pretty much, "I went through formal, only got invited back to one chapter after round 1, then got cut out completely after round 2. Went through informal and didn't get any bids. Should I go through formal in the fall?" After the first couple responses she deleted her post, which I read as a disinclination to take advice as given. I decided to tangent the thread as a discussion to help other girls get over some of that awkwardness. And I think there has been some great suggestions! I really like the "speak 50% of what you think." I am pretty good about deleting a lot of what I say in print before hitting send. I am not so good about it in the audible form so it's a lesson worth being reminded of.
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It's SO hard to know what it means if someone didn't get a bid during informal. Thanks for adding this, because that is totally different from someone going through formal rush twice and not getting a bid.