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Originally Posted by HQWest
In a smooth, well-oiled (moneyed) "top" chapter, those things all look easier. In a chapter that is struggling, someone (or hopefully someones  ) has to put a lot of work in, but can still have a lot of fun, and that chapter can do a lot that a loose group of friends cannot. |
This, this, this!
Back in the day, we had to bust our butts during rush for every single pledge we brought to the house on bid day.
And I loved it. I got to do all kinds of things I wouldn't have gotten to do in a bigger "top" chapter.
And not only did we have a killer sisterhood, it prepped me for the real world far better than being part of a "machine" house would have.
So rather than competitive, I'd call this situation Unrealistic Entitlement, though Stupid Bitch Heaven has a nice ring to it, too.