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Originally Posted by 33girl
No (unless you really don't want a bid). Contact the national headquarters directly.
Also, these things are going to vary WIDELY from school to school. At Tiny Northern U, there may be so few second-generation Greeks going through rush that anyone with any familial tie is considered a "legacy" (even if that's not a written national policy). At Bigass Southern U, a girl whose mom, grandma and 5 sisters aren't from THAT CHAPTER may have a problem getting the second look that a legacy would usually get -even if they are considered legacies through a written national policy.
As far as DDD, I don't think it's a matter of "enthusiasm," rather they had a smart person who did the math a long time ago and realized that if they extended legacy status too far through the family, they would be up the creek eventually.
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Thank you! This pretty explained my concerns. A girl I talked to at my future school who is a sorority didn't even know it was usual for legacies to go through recruitment. My future school isn't that small either. I think about 600 girls go through recruitment. I don't even know why I expressed these concerns. I know I just have to wait and see what happens. But that is hard for a PNM with so much "legacy stress". So thank you all for being so understanding.