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how about this
"I feel that if you love someone you would be willing to wait for them"
That statement is as unfair as the vica-versa of the statement that Men have used for years (which is)
I feel that if you LOVE ME, you would be willing to HAVE SEX for them...
In both situations, it's unfair for your partner to have to sacrafice a major part of what they want in a relationship because of what you want.
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Personally... (ex) I want my 1st child to be my wife's 1st child as well... So, I don't date (with the exceptions of just outings) women who have a child(ren). And I do that so that I stay in line with what I desire. I also want to be in a : monogomous sexual relationship that may lead toward marriage. Therefore, it would make no sense to show a committment to someone who's looking for a platonic monogomous relationship. And it would definitely be wrong to try to 'pressure her' do something that she doesn't want to do.
IN THAT SAME LIGHT.. it's wrong to try to pressure someone to be monogomous if that's not the relationship THEY WANT (man or woman)...
Y'all should just find someone who's on the same road as you are. I know there are plenty of Black Single Women who're looking for a monogomous sexual relationship just like I am... So, that's a person whom I'll look for and be with.
The people (Men or Women) who're looking for a platonic relationship should do the same...
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