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Originally posted by Dexter
I agree with you. It does take alot of character and stregnth to stand firm on your beliefs. My question is how long should his sincerity be on trial? What 2 months, 6 months, a year, two years? How long should my sincerity be on trial? If I'e dedicated myself to you fully then you should know. As far as the hit and run....Some women shouldn't be so hot in the pants to give it up. C'mon women can tell what a guys character is like within the first week of dealing with him. If he walks like a dog and barks like a dog, then guess what? He is a dog.
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Why do you refer to it as being on trial??? A test of faith, patience, or stamina through subjection to suffering or temptation is a trial.... Yes, you may be tempted to engage in sexual activities and you may even feel that you are suffering... however, if you are "truly sincere" and you understand and respect your lady's wishes then you will not feel like you are on trial! Women don't just hold back because we don't have anything else better to do and we aren't trying to make you miserable on purpose.
As Fato said... "How long should you wait is one of the oldest unanwered questions in the history of male/femlae relationships."
If we give it up too fast then we are "hot in the pants"... if we decide to wait a while then we are "putting ya'll on trial and making ya'll suffer"
And as Neciy81 said... you don't NEED sex!
It will not shrivel up and die if it isn't being used for a hot minute
And contrary to popular belief... it won't grow cobbwebs
Once again... if two individuals want two different things (especially when the situation at hand is something as serious as sex) then maybe they should try to find someone who wants the same out of the relationship.