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Originally Posted by boomboom
Apart from the whole obvious aspects (such as going through rush week), what do I need to do at and/or before attending USC in order to prepare myself fully in order to receive a bid. I already *think* I know which fraternity I want to join, but am fully aware of the fact that I might change my mind after being physically present. Anyway, do I need letters of recommendations? This might be shallow... but I do not know too much about Greek Life, but do I need "preppy" clothes? Do I need to hit the gym all summer?
I guess what I am asking is, what actually goes on at Rush? Do people usually end up getting bids at the fraternity they want? And also, is there anyway to give me an advantage?
Thanks
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This is really generic advice, but I think it's really a universal truth. Be the best version of YOU that you can. It's different for everyone.
For some people, that means going to a gym. There is no negative to being healthy and fit. Exercising is a good habit to get into, especially for college when you might not be making the healthiest choices.
For others, it means sorting out your wardrobe to best suit your body/style/lifestyle. It's not always the trends that make an outfit; classics are a great investment and stand the test of time). The most expensive or trendy clothes won't matter if they don't fit you (too big, too small), don't suit your personality, and don't work with your lifestyle. It's ridiculous for you to completely change your wardrobe to look like someone or something you are not.
Still others might network with fraternity alumni to learn about the organization on campus and nationally, hone their interview and conversation skills, beef up their resume, or formulate a financial plan to help pay for dues and extras (t-shirts, parties, formals, paraphernalia) - whether it's saving an allowance or getting a summer job.
As for specifics to help you get a bid, every campus, national organization, and particular chapters are different, so I won't speak to that. Just remember that if you have to pretend to be someone else during rush, you're in for a lot of work (and disappointment).