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Originally Posted by OhIjustdontknow
I told her what I would bring in to her once I have it all gathered, and I get the vibe that she doesn't know where to get any forms or whatnot, any suggestions on what to tell her?  |
Tell her that she should be able to find the recommendation form on her sorority's national website. If she can't find it on her own, or if it requires a member number that she doesn't have/forgot, she can call the headquarters and they can help her out.
If you don't actually live in SEC country, it's not unusual for her to not have written a rec before.
As far as your friends...I would not meet with any of the potential rec writers simultaneously. To be blunt, there may be some of you that a sorority alum does want to recommend, and some she doesn't, for whatever reason. To give off the vibe that you are all "in this together" would be extremely awkward, and put her on the spot.