Chemistry isn't just sex, or even anything sexual. If I can't connect with a guy (or anyone) intellectually on some level, I can't spend time with them. And no, I don't mean are they as smart as me, do they have a degree blah blah blah. If I'm hanging out with someone and have to explain every joke, every reference, every reason I'm laughing, it is going to be very heavy sledding - no matter how nice or "qualified" they are or how much you "commit" to making the relationship work.
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