I'll be blunt here. Do you remember that you are part of that very sorority?
Have you done anything yourself to address this issue? Or, are you just complaining about the rest of your chapter?
Are you actively doing things to give your sorority a good reputation? Or, are you leaching off the reputations of your sisters?
Have you spoke to the fraternities in question and figured out some way for them to have a social with you? Or, are you just observing that you don't have socials with those fraternities?
More so, did you or your chapter ever do anything that gives your chapter a positive reputation? It's something that's earned, not given, traded, or kept.
Those are things to think about: you are a part of your chapter as much as every one of your sisters.
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