OK, so I've learned a very good lesson here: make sure to educate our candidates (new members/pledges/littles/etc.) on how to firmly but pleasantly respond when an inappropriate question is asked by a non-sister, or someone who doesn't need to know. It's not a crime on the questioner's part to ask (unless they just *know* better, as is often the case on the 'net)...however it depending on how a sister responds, the questioner's opinion of the sister and our sisterhood could be compromised. And no one needs that.
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