You know - it is a lot like recruitment. I had lots of opportunities from the college I chose, I might have had different ones if I had gone to the other choice. I was upset when my first choice turned me down, my original plan was to transfer, but I realized I would not have been happy there in the long run and stayed. The one I chose worked out great for me, I had a good education and got into a good graduate program. It helped to help make me me.
... and as for not being the "sorority type" - if you only knew how many times I heard that.