I'm sure our fraternity is like any other organization, when it comes down to major infrastructural changes. If "Ashley" sees something they want changed, they "bitch" to a few people about it. Sort of...feel out the climate; find out who wants the same or who could help. Little mini-meetings and then some Rolling Rock and tostitos. Or tostitos and "33" during the little meetings. chip away at it, instead of getting bogged down in meetings with the entire organization once a week.
there are lots of ways to battle through it, i'm sure you and your group will survive if yall want it, too. you obviously care about it enough to try and improve, and you said you love your pledge sisters. it's just gonna feel like wading through molasses...
wish you luck