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Old 03-17-2012, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted by DubaiSis View Post
the thing is if you attend preference you ARE on the bid list. Somewhere. But you might be #60 out of 60 and the pledge class will be 30. The only time you are assured your spot on the top of the list is if you attend preference and you are a legacy. And I believe the rush secretary and the alumna adviser keep the exact order under pretty tight wraps. But I don't know if that's true for all sorority chapters everywhere.
When Chapters do not keep the bid list order under tight wraps it leads to inferiority-complexes for individual members as well as the entire Chapter. Keeping them close to the vest helps Sisters to treat each other with respect and to respect their Chapter as a whole.
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