
Well I think good men are very hard to find and so are good women. But they are out there. I also feel that you should be equal to the person you are seeking to find.A lot of people have said that you have to look inside a person, and I believe that is very true.But that first instant attraction is most likely physical. And someone I don't find attractive I just can't see myself being with. Now I have gotten to know some brothas who upon first glance,I didn't feel were attractive.But after getting to know them, what was on the inside was even better than I could imagine.