[DubaiSis]

Your attitude going through rush could well have affected your outcome, but here are a couple things to keep in mind:
rush is harder as a sophomore than it is a freshman. You will incur rough cuts and you need to be prepared for that.
the house that you were too good for last year may still be the one you're left with at the end of this rush. Maybe you should give them a chance, if they give you another chance.
the girls who told you it was such a surprise and blah blah blah? They were blowing sunshine up your skirt. Take it for exactly zero. The possibility that you were actually a mistake is minimal at best. Those particular girls may have wanted you and they may have even thought you ended up higher on their list, but you didn't so there you go.

Next time go in happy and ready to look at every chapter with fresh eyes. If you're on a campus that requires recs, you will need them again. They don't roll over from year to year.