Okay...
But this sounds like a troll;
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I was asked back to all my top choices for theme, but then got cut right before pref by my favorite house. I went anyway, and found that my second choice may have been what was right for me all along. The final other house had been my last choice all week long and I didn't believe I would get it anyway. The girls in my second choice really seemed to like me and it soon became my first. They seemed optimistic about my getting a bid, which was why I was so surprised the next day when I got a bid from my last pick!! I never felt a connection with the girls in that house and felt like I would be only picking the sorority for the sake of being Greek, so I declined the bid. Don't think I'm being uppity; I was very down on myself that week in general and didn't feel like it was a good time to make such a time and money commitment either if I wasn't 100% sure about it.
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http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=124482
Define "optimistic." It is an infraction to say that you will get a bid much less say anything leading to it.
On the off chance that you are not a troll, SEARCH the threads. THERE ARE TONS OF THREADS ON THIS.
NO ONE CAN TELL YOU YOUR CHANCES.
WE DON'T KNOW YOU.
Every school is different and everyone is different.
THERE WAS ONE CHAPTER INTERESTED IN YOU AND YOU DECLINED IT.
It is MUTUAL selection. You not only select them but they select you.
THEY ARE SHOPPING YOU AS MUCH AS YOU SHOPPING THEM.