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Originally posted by sphinxpoet
How and why is marriage and divorce the only benchmarks that we have when measuring commitment? Is that why society puts such an emphisis on getting married? Do sisters really think there is a shortage of men or just there is a shortage of men that can deal with you and your specific issues? Just a question or 2?
Sphinxpoet
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Marraige and divorce..we have been socialized to think that we need some sort of ceremony to validate our feelings/committment. I *personally* do not feel it necessary, but that is another thread.
Shortage of men? Being real here: I think there is a shortage of men who meet certain qualifications that women are looking for. Every woman looks for something different in a man, so don't ask me what those qualifications are...I can only tell you what mine are.