Quote:
Originally posted by TLAW
Being a St Paul native, I refuse to believe that all the Minn brothers are that bad! Still, all your arguments can be flipped, you know. Not all women instil the need to settle down in men, and some are just downright scandalous. Same principle applies: Do not settle. There are good people, who can fulfill most of your desires. Now, I believe pursuit of Mr 100% Perfect is unreasonable, and some people are just impossible to satisfy. What are those attributes that you consider reasonable?
|
TLAW...based SOLELY on your posts, I would say you are a pretty good man. Unfortunately, you are an exception. NOW...do not read that to mean that there are no good men. What I mean is that you seem to grasp the concept that most men, and WOMEN for that matter, cannot until they have lived a while. It is maturity.
It is also mature, in my opinion, to realize it when you are not fully prepared to commit to someone else. That is how I feel right now.
Why is it the woman's responsibility to instill a need to settle down? It is each individuals responsibility to instill/determine when they are ready to settle down.
Attributes that are reasonable? Explain. Like are you asking for ideal characteristics in a mate?
Like you said earlier, being picky is not a bad thing. Settling down does not mean settling
for .