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Originally Posted by sb55
So I rushed this spring semester and got a bid to a sorority I didn't really like... I couldn't go to that many events before initiation because I was busy ... I really didn't connect with the girls and the atmosphere didn't seem welcoming.... this sorority has a reputation for being "weird" and is made fun of... I asked a lot of people for help but none of them ever mentioned the lifetime commitment rule... It's a lot of money to pay for people I don't even care that much for.
How do I deal with this? Should I stay in it or just quit? Is it better to be in greek life than not?
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Why did you accept a bid to a sorority you didn't like?
I find it interesting that you were too busy to go to any events prior to initiation.
Did you attempt to connect to any of the women? Were you approachable or did you stand in the corner with your hands stuffed deep into your pockets?
Had you not been aware of this group's reputation prior to accepting the bid?
During your initiation, you didn't notice anything in the language regarding a lifetime commitment? It's odd to me that you'd expect others to point out something like that.
Wow @ seeing your dues as paying for people.
To answer your final question - you should just quit. Seriously.