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Originally posted by TLAW
Not all women instil the need to settle down in men, and some are just downright scandalous.
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Who are we talkin' about here? Who is supposed to instill in men to settle down? His mama? Cuz I know you ain't talkin' about his girl. We do dang near everything but beg for our ring!!! LOL! I think that's a message that needs to come from a man. I don't know, don't get me started on this, please, lol.
As far as some women being scandalous, it's a reason they got that way. Just like there are reasons why men cheat (Michael Baisden's book was the bomb). Vicious cycle, vicious cycle. *SIGH* Will the circle ever be unbroken?
And then it's like... what part do you settle on? I mean, what part of the relationship is not that important? If you find a hard working man who doesn't do as well on his night job, then what? Or if you find a man who works the hell outta his night job but is a buster, then what? Or he is well educated but is a womanizer? Or he is uneducated but hard working yet feels intimidated by your education? Or he is easy to talk to but is unmotivated and has no drive? Can I PLEASE get the total package?? My ex told me that I wanted it ALL and I can't have it ALL. Why not?
Then, when we're not discouraged, and we want a commitment, and we're looking for it, we are seen as desperate. WTF??? So, d*mn all that. I'm cool with me, and I'm going to kick it for a while.
Del, don't make ME go back to Birthday '02. Busters, I swear, lol.