Your successful rushes won't be from the girls who show up, it will be from the girls who are personally invited. It's hard to do but you need to be getting to know the girls you have in classes, clubs, activities and invite them to your events. Especially when you're the new kids on the block your best bet might be the girls who never really thought about rush or sorority life. They won't have preconceived notions about who you are or your status on campus.
But I still don't understand how you can be initiated AND still be a colony member.
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