Ideal & Strawberry,
I'm with y'all-DISCOURAGED! Most of y'all know that I live in Minnesota. Not only are the men scared of commitment, they're scared to ask you to dance at First Fridays?!

I'm still shook on that one. There is no point in looking, we might as well make OURSELVES the bomb so when God blesses us with someone, we'll be totally ready!
P.S. Ideal, I know you really know what I'm talking about...we won't go back to Valentine's Day '02...
You know what, and while I'm at it, I gotta question. Why is it that every guy that
is trying to holla at me 1) married 2) at least, ten years my senior 3) has about three children by two different women 4)straight GARBAGE 5) has been married at least two times?! C'mon now!
I'm getting frustrated...so that's why I'm DISCOURAGED!