This is why I hate the concept of integrating new members into the chapter right away. It's way too intimidating, especially in such a huge chapter. Are you the only person who received a bid through COB? If not, make an effort to get to know the other girls who did. They're in the same boat.
Your bid day buddy was no doubt looking perfect because that's what's expected at chapter meetings in your chapter. I guarantee you she has her days of looking like poo, everyone does.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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