After a week, me and a past friend, got our bids and the night before we were supposed to "pledge" ZTA, we attended a XYZ party. But, wait it gets worse. I only went there because she wanted to go there and I wanted to get acquinted w/ them. She (and to a degree, I) origionally wanted to go XYZ. To make a long story short, they extended her a bid (knowing she signed one from ZTA) and she SIGNED it (a big no-no). The news got around quickly to the ZTAs the next day, my ex-friend didn't show up at induction, and that made them even more suspicious. They confronted me and I felt pressured, so confirmed the rumor (tattling on my friend). That was one BIG mess!
I'm shocked that they even wanted me to continue w/ the pledging process and my friend spoke to me again.
