I can tell you right now, most chapters will not consider you to be a legacy. Legacies are only sisters and daughters. That doesn't mean that they can't write rec letters for you, but even if you tell the chapter that you're a legacy, they very well may know that you're not.
Second, be yourself. No matter what sorority you join, these sisters will be your sisters for life, and if you're putting up a front, they will find out one way or another.
Trust the recruitment process, things always have a way of working out in the end, even though it may not seem that way in the beginning. You're joining a sorority for the experience and the sisters, not for the letters on the t-shirt. Those are the things that will matter in the long run.
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Let us steadfastly love one another.
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