I rushed a sorority last week with one of my best friends and she didn't get in with me.
i took the bid anyway thinking it was what i wanted, but i have noticed that im really not getting along with the girls and that my reasons for rushing were pretty dumb. I wanted to meet more people, and i knew it looked good on my resume, but i also like their "themes" and such. i don't have a big yet, but I feel like a week isn't enough time to decide, but idk what to do. both of my best friends are doing a diff sorority and i don't want us growing apart. im just not really sure about this sorority for me and sometimes i feel it in my gut that it's not right.