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Originally Posted by nobidgirl
this was an informal recruitment. we were required to go to 3 meetings, i went to 4.
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This also jumped out at me. Are you saying that your campus does Formal Recruitment in the fall and that this was spring informal/COB? In that case, the groups would have had a limited number of bids that they could offer. For some groups that may have even been a very small number.
I concur with what DubaiSis said in that "quiet plus appearance not appropriate for occasion" are concerns, as this can give off the message that you weren't truly interested and did not put forth any effort for the recruitment process. However, it may just have been a numbers game if the chapters only had a few spaces to fill.
If you campus is supportive of upperclassmen getting bids, you might try again through formal recruitment.