[pnm123]

Hi everyone,

I go to a medium sized school in the northeast, and I missed formal recruitment last semester but I'm still interested in joining a sorority, so I was planning on participating in informal recruitment this semester. I've done quite a bit of research on the sororities at my school and from what I've found it looks like only one is recruiting this semester. Problem is, I have to go home the weekend immediately following recruitment. If the sorority I'm interested in wants to give me a bid, will I need to be at school that weekend? When do I bring up that I won't be here? I don't want to say it right off the bat, because I don't want to assume that they would want me as a part of their sorority, but I don't want to wait until after I get a bid (if I get one at all). Anyone have any advice on what to do?
Thank you!