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Originally Posted by future pnmmom
Hi! I am new here but have read so many threads and have learned so much. My daughter will be going through rush at a SEC school in the fall and I have a few questions that I have not found answers to yet. We have a good start on recs and hopefully, with the help of the local Panhellinic society, she will be able to get at least one for all of the sororities on campus. My question is, if we can't secure a rec for "XYZ" will that affect her with "ABC" and "EFG" or only "XYZ"? Also, I am not clear on "bumping", especially during the first round. If you are bumped 3 or 4 times, is that a good thing? Or is it a negative, meaning that none of the girls care for you and don't want to waste time on you? Thank you so much!
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Only the chapter knows what recs it received, but if she's at an SEC school she will need at least one rec for each chapter or will most likely face a first round cut.
Every chapter at every school bumps differently. Even if it had something to do with her likelihood of being invited back, we couldn't tell you. This is one of those areas you need to chill about now or you will be a crazy person by the time her recruitment begins. There is no possible way to figure out her chances or outcome.