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Originally Posted by NutBrnHair
To me
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As I stated, the importance of big/little depends a great deal on chapter size and campus culture. If no one at your chapter/campus cared that much about bigs or littles or the relationship lasting, that's fine for you and your chapter/campus, but don't try to make it sound like it's something stupid everyone should blow off.
At any rate, it seems like the OP's big failed even in what you consider a big to be for - she was never a mentor to begin with.