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Originally Posted by aephi alum
If you are looking at COB'ing 19 women, you could invite them to your house or some other location for a "pref party", and then surprise them with bids. For those who accept, the pref party turns into a bid day party.  |
That sounds really cute unless there's a girl in the group who changed her mind and doesn't want to accept... then it could get really awkward really quickly and you may ruin it for the other girls.
I think a personal visit is always nice, and then the girl can discuss it with the sisters who come visit and she'll have a chance to think about it without being put on the spot.