[ellebud]

ENOUGH!!!!!!! I think that we are more comfortable picking up a tangent than addressing an uncomfortable issue. I personally don't care if there is a dangling or an incomplete......I care about answering the question of a seventeen girl old girl.



To the OP: After you select the school (or even during your college selection process) look at the Panhellenic/Greek Life sites. You may be happily surprised. Or you may be disappointed in what you see in the photographs. I'm from the west coast. I can't answer your question about an SEC school. But look into Greek life at all your schools.

Then you have a choice. Only you can make that choice.

I know that when I rushed Jewish girls could only pledge one house, the Jewish house. I know that my daughter had an open field when she went through recruitment. In between there were trailblazers. You may be the trailblazer. You may be very disappointed. But you will never know until you sign up.