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I have this theory that some girls are naturally "bigs" and some girls are naturally "littles". My big and I have never been super close; we're definitely good friends and sisters but it doesn't really feel like what a big/little relationship should. I also have a "twin" from my pledge class as well and my big has a third little as well, and I've always felt like my big was closer to them than to me -- which is fine! I now have two littles (different pledge classes) and I am super close to both of them and they are super close with each other.
What I'm trying to say is some girls just naturally fall better into one of those roles. Natural "littles" prefer to have someone else take the lead, initiate things, etc. whereas natural "bigs" are the nurturing type who like to lead. I'm a natural "big" -- maybe you are too!
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