I know this is not what amIblue? is saying but I'm throwing this out there before the thread goes there:
The OP wants to be in an NPC sorority. She should not come knocking on the NPHC sororities' doors just because she is afraid to try NPC recruitment. That is not the role of NPHC sororities in the 21st century. Besides, if the OP has not brought up the NPHC on her own, it should not be recommended to her. That is insulting and is not how we operate.