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DBB, I agree that it's odd for people to support dropping (I'm definitely a stick it out kind of a gal) but to me it seems like he's really thought it out and his reasons for staying are just not good enough.
My suggestion, if reality matches the way this thread reads, is get out now before you spend any more precious time on a losing situation. It's going to suck no matter when you do it, so you might as well get on with the sucking and awkwardness and see what happens next. IF another fraternity is going to be open to taking you, they're going to be more open to it as a younger guy who's not too entrenched in the old group.
You seem to have a good head on your shoulders and I wish you luck. Let us know how it goes and what happens next.
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