[melindawarren]

I'm only posting this because I'm sick of collegians coming here and giving us all a bad name.

From a female perspective, I don't think there's any reason why "having less of an understanding of the significance of ritual blah blah whatever" should impact a relationship between two adults.

Then again, I can't prove that anyone in the OP's situation is actually an "adult."

If a guy doesn't want to date one of my awesome unaffiliated friends just because she isn't Greek, he's missing out, big-time.

If a guy only wants to date me because I have letters, he's an idiot. I'm sorry, but he is. And he's probably not worth my time, either.