Unlike most people who come on here, it sounds like you've thought through this and your reasons for quitting seem reasonable. But I do think you should consider 2 things. The chapter probation period will end at some point and the douchy older guys will graduate. At that point, would your membership be worth saving? If not, then it's a pretty easy call.
But as ElieM said, just because you have buddies who have said you'd be a perfect fit doesn't mean you would actually get a bid for membership. We can all hope the best for you, but it is something you need to keep in mind. It sounds like your current membership is bad enough that nothing is better than what you have. But nothing IS what you could end up with.
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