When I was a rho chi, each PNM met with her rho chi individually. She was either told that she did not match, or she was told "Congratulations, you've received a bid from _____" and handed her bid card. If she accepted or deferred her bid, she was then sent to her new sorority's bid day party. (You could defer for 3 days or so, if you wanted to think about it, talk to your parents, etc. before signing.)
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