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Originally Posted by Lightning Bug!
Best of luck. When you go through rush, you are allowed to mention your family's Kappa experience when asked what you're looking for in a sorority/why you're rushing, but don't harp on it too much to the point where it is a sort of creepy "it's destiny" thing. As long as you've filled out your legacy forms, the Kappa chapter will know that you're a fourth-generation legacy without your having to tell them. And DON'T talk about it much/at all at other houses, lest you ruin your chances with them. You don't want to be cut from houses that might be a good fit just because you're "that girl who is some super Kappa legacy and is set on going Kappa."
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AAMOF +1 to everything Lightning Bug wrote. Just didn't feel like QFPing the entire post.
OP, RELAX. And open up your mind! One of my very best friends/Theta sisters was a multi-generational Kappa legacy, and she found her home with Theta. Her choice, FWIW. The sky didn't fall; the Kappas in her family are still speaking to her. And the reverse is true: I know multi-generational Theta legacies who are happy members of other GLOs.
Sometimes I think this whole legacy business is more troublesome than helpful.
PS: there are founders' descendants going through recruitment at the present day. Can't even imagine the pressure.