I spent all of high school assuming that I would join my mother's sorority when I went to college. I would say I was "groomed" to some extent--we even had practice recruitment conversations, though they were mostly joking. And when I started college? I didn't even want to be in a sorority anymore! Things ended up changing, clearly, since I'm on GreekChat, but my sorority experience didn't happen the way I expected (I'm so happy it happened the way it DID, though).
My point is that you will probably change your mind at least a few times. Right now you should go live your life, and don't read too much on GreekChat or anywhere else. Worry about recruitment again when you are a senior and starting to apply/get accepted to colleges.
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