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Not a "sister", however we had a similar situation with my chapter. A guy came back from a year off as he was receiving an international degree in another country, certain guys didn't really know him but were unsure of him, he went active anyways and showed the naysayers the type of guy he was just by being around. My point being is that these girls don't know you, so they think it's ok to talk about you, but as you re assert yourself in the chapter they'll get to know you better and hopefully you can earn their respect and the rumors will dissipate.
I could be completely off base as fraternities are different from sororities, but just my .02 cents
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