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Jen: I think you have gotten some great advice on here, and I think KDCat probably made a great diagnosis that a lot of what you are feeling is general homesickness, etc. All of us went through it in one form or another. Unfortunately, a lot of girls think that joining a sorority will create an "instant home away from home."
Some of the best advice given was GET INVOLVED. Volunteer for something you are interested in within the sorority, or even something you have never had any interest in before to expand your horizons. For me, the closest friends I developed in college where those who I ended up working with on something, as challenges and common experiences bring people together. I think you will see the same will be true for your overall college experience as well (when you go from large lecture classes to smaller classes in your major you will start bonding more and more with your fellow students).
We have all been there in one form or another. Hang in there!
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