[AXOrushadvisor]

It sounds like you have had some questions from early in the membership process. Sorority life is not for every one. Sorority membership is for life. I have met more then one person my age (hitting 50 with a short stick) that wish they hadn't resigned in college. There are so many opportunities with Greek Life for networking and social activities as an adult. I live in a different state then where I went to school and most of my adult friends I met through the local alumni group.

Are you required to live in a house? I would definitely grab a spot because that is the easiest way to really get to know your sisters. I will also tell you that there are nice girls mean girls, bitchy girls, girls who don't give a crap in every Chapter. When you get that many girls together you tend to get a mixed bag.

Stick with it.