|
I feel sad for you because this should be such a happy time in your life. Unfortunately, you allowed yourself to be influenced by others with regards to your decision about which house to put as your first choice. My advice would be to stick with it for another semester and see how it goes. I am presuming that you have been initiated? If not, you can de-pledge and re-rush in the future. But, if you decide to stick with it, try not to dwell on what you think that you don't like about the sorority and the members. Look for positive things! Seek out other girls who are like yourself. Ask to be slated for a position in the house! Try to be as active in your chapter as possible. Get psyched for recruitment and offer to be on a committee to help plan one of the parties. Consider a position on your college's panhellenic council. Involve yourself as much as you can. I do think that it will make a big difference in your experience. Good luck to you!!
|