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			DBB, while I appreciate what you're saying, she came here looking for advice.  If we were walking up to random woman on the street, yes, STFU would be appropriate.  She is clearly trying to take baby steps toward reaching out, even if to complete strangers.  Having a few people nudge her in the direction she undoubtedly already knows to be the right thing might be the little push she needs.
		 
				__________________"Traveling - It leaves you speechless, then turns you into a storyteller. ~ Ibn Battuta
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