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Don't let yourself have anxiety about making the perfect choice. Very often, men join for different reasons than they stay. The History Channel produced a wonderful documentary on fraternities and one of the men interviewed was actor Kevin Costner, a very loyal alumnus of Delta Chi. They asked him how he became a Delta Chi and he talked about gonig through rush - remember, this was a time when rush involved a great deal of alhocol consumption. He said he went from house to house, having a beer at each along the way. He went to sleep on the floor of the Delta Chi house and when he woke up he was wearing a pledge pin.
The interviewer asked him why he stuick with Delta Chi. he smiled and said, "Well, I've never wanted to be too deliberate about choosing my friends, and it all worked out well."
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