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1. Being able to pin/lavaliere depends on your organization, so it would depend on what his particular fraternity says.
2. I transferred from a SEC school (Mississippi State) with a large Greek population and there was a lot of talk about the whole greek dating an independent deal and basically what it boiled down into was the view that if you are not part of the greek life system, then you're not really anybody of importance (unless you're high in the ranks of the student association) and why should they waste their time with you. If you were somebody worth going out with, you would be part of the ~1000 women in an panhellenic sorority.
3. I don't really get that, but being in a relationship with an independent myself, I can see some advantages to dating another greek. Don't get me wrong, I'm extremely happy with my boyfriend, but he doesn't get a lot of the stuff going on with my fraternity, or why we have to do certain stuff and all that. My brothers give me a fair amount of hell for dating outside greek life.
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