Since the prospective or aspirant has not crossed the burning sands. I cannot see any fraternity or soroirty turning down a strong, productive future prospect.
I know if a young educated woman, drop line for another sorority. I would recommend that she completes a self-assessment of herself for at least two years. (Yes, two years -- the prospective needs more time to think about what she really want. Being a part of sorority or fraternity, should not be rush decision)
I just hope that young man does not blame all Alphas for that individuals behavior..
If that Alpha wanted to hit something. He should have went to the gym to box.