It's really not that difficult a dilemma. You seem to have two realistic choices:
1) Go through whatever it is they want you to go through; or
2) Quit.
I guess, technically, you could report your chapter to their national office (or however that works) and law enforcement, etc., but don't expect to do that and not suffer at least some negative consequences if you choose that path.
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